I`m not usually one who says `if only` but................ This morning`s radio phone in is asking for people to ask for nostalgic songs to be played in memory of past holidays. Of course many who phone are elderly and one man was talking about the song which means so much to him and his wife because it was playing when they first met. They have been married for 56 years, in 1963, the same as us. It caused just a little ` if only` for me. It really is best to try to live in the moment.