I'm so sorry but I really do want hubby home. But he can't come here. We've lived here together very happily for 24 years but we agreed that we would need to downsize and find somewhere closer to the community.
In May he took a downturn and was sectioned. Yes I'd been having a difficult time for a couple of months but being isolated from friends and family in a rural location doesn't help. Hubby was on the assessment unit for 2 months and has been granted CHC with 6 hours a day 1 to 1 extra care (this includes personal care too) and has now been in a very good nursing home for a month.
I visit him most days and found it hard when they had to close the unit due to infection. We have a very loving relationship and he is aware of his surroundings and staff say he is a lovely person and has settled very well. (He has been there before on respite breaks.
I've talked to him about the house recently and he does understand about selling but I see the sadness in him - not for the house but for our togetherness. It just breaks my heart that we're not together and he is still "there".
In May he took a downturn and was sectioned. Yes I'd been having a difficult time for a couple of months but being isolated from friends and family in a rural location doesn't help. Hubby was on the assessment unit for 2 months and has been granted CHC with 6 hours a day 1 to 1 extra care (this includes personal care too) and has now been in a very good nursing home for a month.
I visit him most days and found it hard when they had to close the unit due to infection. We have a very loving relationship and he is aware of his surroundings and staff say he is a lovely person and has settled very well. (He has been there before on respite breaks.
I've talked to him about the house recently and he does understand about selling but I see the sadness in him - not for the house but for our togetherness. It just breaks my heart that we're not together and he is still "there".