My husband was diagnosed(4 years ago) with Early onset Alzheimer’s at the age of 57 never been ill with anything before. Needless to say this was a complete shock to both of us. My problem is that I can’t deal with what’s happening and seem to spend my life feeling like rubbish. On the other hand my husband has always been a very gentle layed back person so his attitude was/is to shrug his shoulders and.carry on in his own world.
I don’t know how to deal with the constant changes and get very hurt, there is no support or feed back from him for anything. Then we have a “good day” at it’s wonderful (I make the most of them) these are getting less and I go back to square “one” each time.
My question is does the pain go away? Apart from taking one day at a time what should I do? I have this feeling that I’m drowning with the odd breath to keep going. I have read many books and looked at many YouTube messages even been on a course, I just don’t seem to be able to accept/believe what’s happening to us like most people we have had our share of issues to deal with never been a problem before.
Sorry for rambling on Just woundered if anyone else feels the same.
Thank you for listening.
I don’t know how to deal with the constant changes and get very hurt, there is no support or feed back from him for anything. Then we have a “good day” at it’s wonderful (I make the most of them) these are getting less and I go back to square “one” each time.
My question is does the pain go away? Apart from taking one day at a time what should I do? I have this feeling that I’m drowning with the odd breath to keep going. I have read many books and looked at many YouTube messages even been on a course, I just don’t seem to be able to accept/believe what’s happening to us like most people we have had our share of issues to deal with never been a problem before.
Sorry for rambling on Just woundered if anyone else feels the same.
Thank you for listening.