I haven't posted for ages, because things have been good - and no mum has not died which is also good.
Quick update mum diagnosed 3 yrs ago, went downhill quickly. Went into hospital in May this year, and into a home in August. By the way the home and the staff are lovely. The home is just for people with dimentia, and I was so scared that we would not find a suitable place for her. They are good to both mum & dad.
Anyway back to my point of missing mum - 3 weeks ago I had major surgery (women's problems), and I miss my mum sooooo much. Although I have had other females around me it is my mum that I want to talk to. I went to see her a couple of weeks before I had surgery, and wanted to tell her what was happening but knew it was unfair to say anything. Coming out of the anasetic I asked for only her (my poor husband).
I can't even go and see her because I am not allowed to drive and even if I did get there I would not be able to keep up with her as she loves to walk, and she lives 110 miles away.
I feel so miserable at the moment, I hate this awful disease - all I can think is 'Why my mum, especially when I need her so much'. I sound so selfish, but I just want my mum back.
Debby
Quick update mum diagnosed 3 yrs ago, went downhill quickly. Went into hospital in May this year, and into a home in August. By the way the home and the staff are lovely. The home is just for people with dimentia, and I was so scared that we would not find a suitable place for her. They are good to both mum & dad.
Anyway back to my point of missing mum - 3 weeks ago I had major surgery (women's problems), and I miss my mum sooooo much. Although I have had other females around me it is my mum that I want to talk to. I went to see her a couple of weeks before I had surgery, and wanted to tell her what was happening but knew it was unfair to say anything. Coming out of the anasetic I asked for only her (my poor husband).
I can't even go and see her because I am not allowed to drive and even if I did get there I would not be able to keep up with her as she loves to walk, and she lives 110 miles away.
I feel so miserable at the moment, I hate this awful disease - all I can think is 'Why my mum, especially when I need her so much'. I sound so selfish, but I just want my mum back.
Debby