So the MIL came over from the annex today with a torch at 7 am, I said " mum the outside light comes on its automatic" - Mum " I know but it was dark". Anyway off she goes with meds we gave given her, torch switched off. I pop over "Mum put your light on it's dark you might trip over the rug" - mum - "I've not tripped before" - me "no but it's not been this dark for a while you might trip" - MIL " I do know what I'm doing you know" !!! And breathe!