I have just been and he is getting on well but says he would rather be at home. It makes it harder. He does like it and they are amazing with him.Hello @Cassiecat . Well that's far more than one person could deal with. You have done well to find your husband a place in a care home where he has access to trained staff 24 hours a day. Have you been able to talk to the staff at the care home to see how he is getting on?
Of course he does - they all do. But he has no idea about the difficulties both you and he would face. I bet he still thinks that he can walk and do everything.he is getting on well but says he would rather be at home.
I have just been and he is getting on well but says he would rather be at home. It makes it harder. He does like it and they are amazing with him.
Of course he does - they all do. But he has no idea about the difficulties both you and he would face. I bet he still thinks that he can walk and do everything.
A person with dementia saying that they want to be at home is quite normal. In fact if they didn't say it ,I would think something isn't right . My mother-in-law was like your husband, in that she thought she could do everything herself . In fact she could do little for herself. By the time she was in the care home she couldn't grasp the fundamentals of walking , was a high falls risk , yet thought she was still completely independent. She had no idea of her risks or the fact that the care home was the best place for herI have just been and he is getting on well but says he would rather be at home. It makes it harder. He does like it and they are amazing with him.