Nancy,
I can’t begin to imagine how you or your Mum must feel right now.
I wish there was something I could say to try and help or make you feel that bit better, but there just isn’t. I don’t doubt that many forum users have viewed your posts but not replied - simply because there are no words of comfort we can offer.
You’ve had a hell of a time of it by the sounds of things.
I just hope you keep posting and letting off steam when you feel like you do at the moment.
Whatever you do and whatever happens, please don’t suffer in silence and go easy on yourself.
Take care,
Charlyparly