Hi Everyone . I joined this group today as i don’t know what to do. My mum is waiting for a formal diagnosis from consultant re dementia- she has had a scan and we think she is passed early stage as she is totally reliant on help for cooking, personal care and running the house. She might have Parkinson’s as well (gps view) and is very wobbly on her feet and if I can get her to go out with me we use a wheel chair. She forgets what happened ten minutes ago and often asks the same questions over again. She lives next door to me. My husband and I have brought bought in a care to help most days with dinners and self care but we are doing the rest. We both have challenging jobs to hold down too. Thing is my dad died in January which sent mum spiralling. We need to move mum to a safer home- one without stairs. She has visited a sheltered accommodation flat which she liked at the time but she can’t remember going to see it. We have her house on the market- which she agreed to at the time. But she has forgotten it’s on the market and every time she asks about what is happening she is shocked it’s kon. Today we had an offer so I tried to explain this to mum and she got very angry and upset. I totally get how scared she is and tried to say this and how we need to keep her safe but she just saw it as me being bossy and making her leave the house. I had to walk away for fear of getting angry. She was upset. I haven’t stopped crying all afternoon as I don’t know how to manage this. Added to this we need to move soon as we are near retirement and can’t keep our house going for ever. I want to do the right thing but don’t know what that is.