My husband has been diagnosed with dementia yesterday. I had my suspicions but putting it into words has knocked me for six. He was crying in night I have never seen him cry in 22 years of marriage. He is 58, we have 3 children one is 18 but the other 2 are 12 and 14. I’m worried sick and can’t stop crying. How will I cope, I work part-time, how will I look after everyone? Anyone got advice ?