MUM HAS STOPPED SHOWERING,, BUT SHE INSISTS SHE SHOWERS EVERY MORNING, WHICH SHE DOES NOT. SHE WONT ALLOW ME OR HER CARER TO ASSIST HER, SHE THINKS SHE CAN DO IT HERSELF, BUT SHE IS GETTING THAT AWFUL SMELL OF URINE, SHE KEEPS FORGETTING TO PUT HER PADS ON ALSO.. SHE WAS SUCH AN IMMACULATE WOMAN B4 THE ONSET OF ALZHEIMERS, ITS SAD TO SEE HER THIS WAY. WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE HER SHOWER AND ALLOW ME TO WASH HER CLOTHES? SHE GETS VERY AGGRESSIVE WITH ME IF I MENTION SHOWERING, PADS AND CLEAN CLOTHES, BUT THINGS CANT CONTINUE LIKE THIS..ITS GETTING SO BAD I DREAD GOING INTO THE HOUSE...WHAT CAN I DO ???