In truth, if your husband is able to self-fund (you should not contribute from your own assets) it may be that social services will not do much. Although there is likely to be a delay, it would be worth asking for a needs assessment for him and a carer's assessment for yourself. These might help to clarify what is needed. You might then be in a position to contract for whatever is needed and available.
Getting him to accept help may be difficult at first.
All of this will be made easier if you have Power of Attorney for both property & finance and health & welfare. This assumes that he has capacity and is willing to set this up. My wife suggested doing hers when she realised that I was setting up mine. I did them using the online forms.
Getting him to accept help may be difficult at first.
Paying for dementia care in England
Dementia care isn't free, and you may need to pay for some of the care you or someone you know needs. We help you understand the different ways to pay for care, and the amount you might be expected to pay.
www.alzheimers.org.uk
All of this will be made easier if you have Power of Attorney for both property & finance and health & welfare. This assumes that he has capacity and is willing to set this up. My wife suggested doing hers when she realised that I was setting up mine. I did them using the online forms.
Make, register or end a lasting power of attorney
How to make a lasting power of attorney (LPA): starting an application online, choosing an attorney, certifying a copy, changing an LPA.
www.gov.uk
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