Hello everyone,
I don’t know where to turn.
My 76 year old husband has dementia and has recently started medication, about 4 weeks ago.
Whilst on holiday with our son and his family a few weeks ago, my husband had an argument with our daughter in law when she told him he shouldn’t be driving. He was driving short distances at the time, not at all now as a third party has reported him to the DVLA and we are awaiting the outcome. Also my son and his wife were urging us to move house into something smaller. These two incidents made my husband so very angry .
Since then he is adamant that he wants nothing to do with my daughter in law , doesn’t want to see her etc., I have pointed out that this will impact on us ( me especially) as our son and grandchildren will not longer want to visit. They live a distance away. My husband doesn’t see this and in our argument this morning he has said I must choose, them or him! We also make a contribution to school fees, he no longer wants to do this. He is so angry, threatening, our sons both say he is a bully and sadly I agree.
I was looking forward to our first big family Christmas since Covid but now I fear everything is being blown apart.
He is always telling me to get out, he will leave me with nothing and I will be in the gutter.
I am so close to leaving him but know he would be unable to manage by himself, the man can’t even work the washing machine!
Can anyone give advice on how easy/difficult it is to leave a marriage of 52 years.
I will finished this post as he has just walked in and will want to know what I’m doing.
I don’t know where to turn.
My 76 year old husband has dementia and has recently started medication, about 4 weeks ago.
Whilst on holiday with our son and his family a few weeks ago, my husband had an argument with our daughter in law when she told him he shouldn’t be driving. He was driving short distances at the time, not at all now as a third party has reported him to the DVLA and we are awaiting the outcome. Also my son and his wife were urging us to move house into something smaller. These two incidents made my husband so very angry .
Since then he is adamant that he wants nothing to do with my daughter in law , doesn’t want to see her etc., I have pointed out that this will impact on us ( me especially) as our son and grandchildren will not longer want to visit. They live a distance away. My husband doesn’t see this and in our argument this morning he has said I must choose, them or him! We also make a contribution to school fees, he no longer wants to do this. He is so angry, threatening, our sons both say he is a bully and sadly I agree.
I was looking forward to our first big family Christmas since Covid but now I fear everything is being blown apart.
He is always telling me to get out, he will leave me with nothing and I will be in the gutter.
I am so close to leaving him but know he would be unable to manage by himself, the man can’t even work the washing machine!
Can anyone give advice on how easy/difficult it is to leave a marriage of 52 years.
I will finished this post as he has just walked in and will want to know what I’m doing.