My husband died recently from the effects of dementia. He suffered so much from the disease. I find it so difficult now when I hear the phrase "living with dementia" when it really is a cruel disease. it feels like we are denying the suffering.
My feelings at present are that I am so pleased for him that he is free from the terrible suffering. I have a faith and so did he, so I know he is in Heaven and free from all pain and suffering.
I cannot cry, for I am pleased for him. I do feel deeply sad, at my loss and his last few years which were haunted with the difficulties dementia causes. But I cannot undo those and just have to feel thankful now. And look at all the good he did. He taught me and others to love in the darkness, to love in-spite of the challenges. To show our feeling of care and support very clearly. I loved him so very much and just hope he knows that and all is well.
My feelings at present are that I am so pleased for him that he is free from the terrible suffering. I have a faith and so did he, so I know he is in Heaven and free from all pain and suffering.
I cannot cry, for I am pleased for him. I do feel deeply sad, at my loss and his last few years which were haunted with the difficulties dementia causes. But I cannot undo those and just have to feel thankful now. And look at all the good he did. He taught me and others to love in the darkness, to love in-spite of the challenges. To show our feeling of care and support very clearly. I loved him so very much and just hope he knows that and all is well.