Hi All,
Just needed a safe place to talk. My husband Tom has been in a NH (thank God a great one) for the last 4*years - Tom's dementia has gotten worse over the last 6* years - although he amazes me - at times he is so clear, and at others not so much. I visit him 4-5 times a week, I still work full time, Tom had his stroke at 56. He was in tremendous shape, he had a huge kidney stone, which let to sepsis within 2 months and he had the stroke in the hospital when they operated on his clavicle (abscess). if he wasn't in such good shape he would have passed. We have been together since we were both 15, grew up together, graduated together, went through everything together, and I am still not used to being alone without him in the house. Some days are easier than others, some are unbearable. Hang in there, your not alone.![Smile :) :)](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
Just needed a safe place to talk. My husband Tom has been in a NH (thank God a great one) for the last 4*years - Tom's dementia has gotten worse over the last 6* years - although he amazes me - at times he is so clear, and at others not so much. I visit him 4-5 times a week, I still work full time, Tom had his stroke at 56. He was in tremendous shape, he had a huge kidney stone, which let to sepsis within 2 months and he had the stroke in the hospital when they operated on his clavicle (abscess). if he wasn't in such good shape he would have passed. We have been together since we were both 15, grew up together, graduated together, went through everything together, and I am still not used to being alone without him in the house. Some days are easier than others, some are unbearable. Hang in there, your not alone.