My parents live togethe. My mum is 87 with dementia but generally physically well. My Dad is 84 in good mental health but poor physical health. Recently he was admitted to hospital for a month so I moved in to stay with my mum. It is clear her dementia is on rapid decline. She doesn’t know where she is most of the time, who I am or that she is married. She does not sleep in the night but paces up and down arguing with world. She is often verbally abusive and aggressive. Recently everyday she says that she is dying and needs a Gp and will not take painkillers as prescribed. Her self care is poor she did not bath for the whole time I was with her. My Dad is back home now but I can see that my mum is too much when she is abusive to him and shows absolutely no empathy in relation to his poor health and mobility. I think he may end up having a stroke or heart attack. They both have carers. Mum has carers at mealtimes. I visit every night/evening and cook all their meals. I have been off work for 6 weeks to care for her but I need to go back in January.
Sorry I’ve rambled but I’m an only child I just feel overwhelmed.
Sorry I’ve rambled but I’m an only child I just feel overwhelmed.