My man has had to go into a residential care home as I could no longer cope with his aggressive behaviour, but I feel SO guilty. The staff at the home are lovely but, even after 3 months, he asks to go home, everyday. I've tried all sorts of advice and even taken him there for visits. However the last visit ended in him trying to get out of the car on the way back. So I've said I'm not taking him for a while, but he then started being physically aggressive to me, as well as verbal. The carers are great with him and say he calms down when I'm not there. He says it's a lovely place, but he just wants to die at home.