Husband has been recently diagnosed with vascular dementia and has other medical conditions and mobility issues. It’s early days yet and I’m taking it a day at a time and learning as I go along. We have good days and bad days.
My current issue is trying to figure out just how much (or how often) should I ask (husband would call it nagging!) him to do the things he’s finding increasingly difficult, or he is increasingly reluctant to do. I include washing/showering, dressing in proper clothes (as opposed to jogging pants and a sweat shirt … his normal day and night attire), changing clothes at bed time, flushing the toilet etc etc …… it’s a long list and getting longer as things progress.
I ask him once and I’m accused of nagging, twice and he gets verbally aggressive. Do I keep at it or just let him do his own thing? Once again, thank you for any insights ……
My current issue is trying to figure out just how much (or how often) should I ask (husband would call it nagging!) him to do the things he’s finding increasingly difficult, or he is increasingly reluctant to do. I include washing/showering, dressing in proper clothes (as opposed to jogging pants and a sweat shirt … his normal day and night attire), changing clothes at bed time, flushing the toilet etc etc …… it’s a long list and getting longer as things progress.
I ask him once and I’m accused of nagging, twice and he gets verbally aggressive. Do I keep at it or just let him do his own thing? Once again, thank you for any insights ……