I agree with everyone. Please get help now. You do not have to be tormented like this, goodness me, you have done so much. My doctor said to me that the system relies on accidents to bring the caring to a halt and to place the person in a care home. This is what happened to me, please act before it happens to you.I agree with Beate and nellbelles. Seek help now, @tuffydawn, before things get any worse.
(((Hugs)))
Lindy xx
Dear Tuffy,my mood is getting lower and lower and i just don't think i can do this for much longer but how do you know if it is the right time for a care home my life is empty and i am slowly dying inside
My lovely cousin lost her husband just two years ago. He died from prostate cancer. She is 75 and she is totally devastated. She and I have become close over that time, our Moms were identical twins.thank you everyone for your support i feel i can do the physical care but i can not cope with the mental pain i feel of having no life at all i need to live again! and be free that may make me selfish but i cant help it
Darling, I know, we can't get on with our lives, I know. The loss of joy is ghastly, I know. All my thoughts and love. You look after YOU too, you send such loving messages to others darling, encourage others. Look after precious self too.My lovely cousin lost her husband just two years ago. He died from prostate cancer. She is 75 and she is totally devastated. She and I have become close over that time, our Moms were identical twins.
I feel guilty.
I feel that I’m worse off than she is. I can’t or wouldn’t dream of saying that to her, but I feel I’ve lost my husband, but I still see him every day. But there is no joy or love in our life anymore. I don’t believe he is happy, or likes life, or likes me. I’m convenient.
My cousin can get on with her life. It isn’t the life she wants because she wants her husband back. I can’t get on with my life. I don’t have a life anymore. But I’m frightened of saying I would be better off without him, because that makes me very sad and very guilty.
It’s so tough. I know where you are coming from.
Please look after yourself, love B x
I love you Geraldine, you always give me comfort, tears and comfort xxDarling, I know, we can't get on with our lives, I know. The loss of joy is ghastly, I know. All my thoughts and love. You look after YOU too, you send such loving messages to others darling, encourage others. Look after precious self too.
No, few of us could ever imagine our lives would go this horrible way.
all my love, G aka kindred.xxx