it's been a long time since i've posted folks.
self healing ... then along came a virus & my little snow globe world got shaken up yet again!
i'm lucky mum has carers 4 times a day but that also means we can't enter her house & sit with her in the new social bubble scheme!
The protection of a dying old woman - isolating her from the faces she knows has destroyed me .... Social Care is strict on what breaks a contract .... so aged mother now can't put a sentence together .... telephone conversations are a no go !
i have written several times a week - sent photos printed off on the computer
repeated emergency calls by carers for ambulances but Mum has a DNR - 3 months & still waiting for an emergency CMHT assessment to access the CHC that's already been agreed.
I thought Dads experience was shocking ---- but the saving grace in all of this are the wonderful carers & company they work for.
Dementia not only changes those who are diagnosed with it but the nearest & dearest .....
Will i be allowed to see my Mum without breaking the social care guidelines & rules .... ?
i asked the GP for an exemption given the circumstances ......
i asked the govt website for guidance & compassion in exceptional circumstances......
.....mostly i function .... whom i kidding .... i'm broken in new & different ways .....
so folks ... all i can say is self rescue .... practise it daily .... it helps a little & sometimes a lot
self healing ... then along came a virus & my little snow globe world got shaken up yet again!
i'm lucky mum has carers 4 times a day but that also means we can't enter her house & sit with her in the new social bubble scheme!
The protection of a dying old woman - isolating her from the faces she knows has destroyed me .... Social Care is strict on what breaks a contract .... so aged mother now can't put a sentence together .... telephone conversations are a no go !
i have written several times a week - sent photos printed off on the computer
repeated emergency calls by carers for ambulances but Mum has a DNR - 3 months & still waiting for an emergency CMHT assessment to access the CHC that's already been agreed.
I thought Dads experience was shocking ---- but the saving grace in all of this are the wonderful carers & company they work for.
Dementia not only changes those who are diagnosed with it but the nearest & dearest .....
Will i be allowed to see my Mum without breaking the social care guidelines & rules .... ?
i asked the GP for an exemption given the circumstances ......
i asked the govt website for guidance & compassion in exceptional circumstances......
.....mostly i function .... whom i kidding .... i'm broken in new & different ways .....
so folks ... all i can say is self rescue .... practise it daily .... it helps a little & sometimes a lot