maryjoan
Registered User
I am trying to keep us both safe here at home. He is 74 and I am 72. He has health issues as well as dementia but does not need shielding.
He does not understand any of the Governments rules now we are under lockdown again, as he thinks the whole coronavirus issue is called a lockdown.
When I say that he cannot do something, or he ought to wash his hands etc he is now calling me a 'Nagging old sod' something he would never have done when he was well.
So this morning he is sulking at me.
I have no support whatsoever with him from his family ( we are not married) and there is no respite now with lockdown.
How will I get through these next weeks???
We have a carer for 1 hour a day who deals with his stoma care and tries to get him to shower. We don't have a car so I cannot go for a drive, and I cannot walk far because of arthritis.
He does not understand any of the Governments rules now we are under lockdown again, as he thinks the whole coronavirus issue is called a lockdown.
When I say that he cannot do something, or he ought to wash his hands etc he is now calling me a 'Nagging old sod' something he would never have done when he was well.
So this morning he is sulking at me.
I have no support whatsoever with him from his family ( we are not married) and there is no respite now with lockdown.
How will I get through these next weeks???
We have a carer for 1 hour a day who deals with his stoma care and tries to get him to shower. We don't have a car so I cannot go for a drive, and I cannot walk far because of arthritis.