Hello. My mother has Alzheimer’s. Me and my brother had to make the hard decision to move her into residential care. I am overcome with guilt because I don’t live near to her care home. We moved her to a place that was close to my brother as she was very close to him. Until recently I had been FaceTiming her every week. I haven’t done this for a while because the last time was extremely stressful and distressing for me and my mother. She has no idea who I am and was spiteful and nasty throughout the call. I really feel torn because she’s my mum and I don’t want to lose contact but I also don’t want to upset her and my by calling. I know it’s the disease that making her this way but I just don’t know how I should be feeling or how to deal with the situation