I've brought OH away on a fantastic holiday but I'm miserable and he doesn't know where he is. After 4 days I tell him again where he is and he's amazed. How did we get here? I have no one to talk to. He needs everything doing for him except spoon feeding. He is constantly asking questions. I know that's common but it's getting worse and after 7 years I'm getting tired. Taking his clothes off when it's time to go out. I can't go out for long alone. He doesn't know where the loo is. He will be 69 next week and is physically mobile. At least at home we regularly meet people so I can have intelligent conversation. The bars and restaurants are self service. How I would love to be waited on! I just needed a moan. At least the weather is good. I know many people have a much harder time than me.