Hi.
I'm in a real quandary about a few days away with my partner. She has dementia. We were going on a four weeks holiday, staying with old friends in places she has visited before. We had to come home after 3 days because Janet just went over the edge and ended up in a comatose state for a couple of hours. We had an incident like this last year when we went away. The trouble is we have paid for a cottage in Pembrokeshire for two weeks. The plan was to have people staying with us the whole time. I intend to go and spend a few days with my brother and his family for a few days in the second week. Janet will have 24-hour care at home during this time. Janet keeps insisting she wants to go to the cottage for the first few days with a friend and me.
I'm very worried that we will have a rerun of the first few days. Our friend says she is happy to at least give it a try and see how it goes. If it happens again, we will come home early. I just don't have the heart to tell Janet she can't go. So as it stands, we are going to give it a go, but I'm so worried. Is this the right decision? Does anybody else on here have this experience? I just don't know what to do for the best.
Thanks for reading.
David
I'm in a real quandary about a few days away with my partner. She has dementia. We were going on a four weeks holiday, staying with old friends in places she has visited before. We had to come home after 3 days because Janet just went over the edge and ended up in a comatose state for a couple of hours. We had an incident like this last year when we went away. The trouble is we have paid for a cottage in Pembrokeshire for two weeks. The plan was to have people staying with us the whole time. I intend to go and spend a few days with my brother and his family for a few days in the second week. Janet will have 24-hour care at home during this time. Janet keeps insisting she wants to go to the cottage for the first few days with a friend and me.
I'm very worried that we will have a rerun of the first few days. Our friend says she is happy to at least give it a try and see how it goes. If it happens again, we will come home early. I just don't have the heart to tell Janet she can't go. So as it stands, we are going to give it a go, but I'm so worried. Is this the right decision? Does anybody else on here have this experience? I just don't know what to do for the best.
Thanks for reading.
David