My dad has vascular dementia. Before he was admitted to a care home, his behaviour was irrational. He would lock himself in the bathroom and not come out until the evening. She would use the time to shave his face as he believed that he had grease on his skin and sand in his eyes. He would not eat and not take his medication on time. In the end he was finally admitted to a good care home. After some months he became very aggressive towards family and care home workers and demanded to back home, so social workers sanctioned this and he came home yesterday, against the wishes of family and the care home manager (who found the social worker to be unprofessional). So far, he has gone back to shaving his face, has ignored my mum and my sister and flooded the bathroom. We are at our wits end. The social worker when arriving with my dad yesterday said nothing to my mum or my sister, other than be sarcastic. We do not know what to do. He needs to register with a GP as he was under the GP in the care home, but has not the capacity to do this himself. The social workers deemed that he had the capacity to make his own decions; he makes decisions but the wrong ones. We would like for him to go back in the care home but do not trust the social workers. We were told by a former social worker that a meeting should include my dad, family members, the social work team, the care home management and dementia crisis team. But this never happened. We have been left on our own to try and deal with this. My mum has a failing heart and any stress could have very adverse affects, we told this to the social workers but they do not care and he was sent home. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.