It feels like we’re a bit lost and out of our depth right now. Dad has dementia but has been ok and still lives a busy varied lifestyle. This week he has been totally out of character and believes that something is going on with my mum, that she’s having an affair, and has been aggressive, nasty and constant with his shouting and accusations. It’s totally not him as he’s the most placid man ever!
It got to the stage that I had to be with them to try (unsuccessfully) to calm him down. He ended up collapsing, mini heart attack and is now in hospital. Thought he might have forgotten about it and why he was so angry but every time he sees mum, or he rings her it’s the same accusations again. How can we deal with this? Is he likely to forget and go back to his calm self? If he gets the all clear for his heart today he will come out of hospital but I can’t have him so nasty and angry at mum. They’re both in their 70s and we have no outside help as yet. Has anyone been through this kind of behaviour?
Please help!!!! Any advice greatly appreciated!!
It got to the stage that I had to be with them to try (unsuccessfully) to calm him down. He ended up collapsing, mini heart attack and is now in hospital. Thought he might have forgotten about it and why he was so angry but every time he sees mum, or he rings her it’s the same accusations again. How can we deal with this? Is he likely to forget and go back to his calm self? If he gets the all clear for his heart today he will come out of hospital but I can’t have him so nasty and angry at mum. They’re both in their 70s and we have no outside help as yet. Has anyone been through this kind of behaviour?
Please help!!!! Any advice greatly appreciated!!