So my mum has dementia and had been getting worse over the last 5years
She went into a care home in January she hates it it's the best care home staff lovely a really lovely place.
My mum could be in Buckingham palace and it wouldn't be good enough
She refuses to join in and hates it and cries all the time when I visit.
She wants to go home.
We still have her home that we need to sort out and I've ti3d to take something's from her home ornaments books etc. But she tells me to.take them home and becomes aggressive
She doesnt have any personal care any more refuses to wash her hair bath or shower. And has been like that a long time.wont let us wash her clothes
But I don't know what to do as she hates it so much there should I let her go home with a plan on place carers etc
Which she has had for nearly 5 years but got worse as she wasn't compliant with medication locking her door etc. Please if someone can help as I don't know what to do for the best
She went into a care home in January she hates it it's the best care home staff lovely a really lovely place.
My mum could be in Buckingham palace and it wouldn't be good enough
She refuses to join in and hates it and cries all the time when I visit.
She wants to go home.
We still have her home that we need to sort out and I've ti3d to take something's from her home ornaments books etc. But she tells me to.take them home and becomes aggressive
She doesnt have any personal care any more refuses to wash her hair bath or shower. And has been like that a long time.wont let us wash her clothes
But I don't know what to do as she hates it so much there should I let her go home with a plan on place carers etc
Which she has had for nearly 5 years but got worse as she wasn't compliant with medication locking her door etc. Please if someone can help as I don't know what to do for the best