Hi Everyone, I am posting here in the hope I can get some advice.
My Mum is 68. She lives alone, though not far from us. My Dad died back in 97 and my Mum has been retired for over 10 years.
She has always been forgetful, ever since I can remember, and it has always been a joke. However, over the last few years, and the last 18 months in particular her memory loss has become a real worry.
She does not remember conversations and cannot remember things that have happened. For example in the last week she has had a problem with her car and her bank. When I ask her about what happened she can give me no details of the problems or how they occurred.
Her personality has also changed. Even though she is with us several times a week she does little to involve herself in conversation and seems to have little joy. She always used to laugh but that is a rare occurrence these days.
When I have attempted to discuss this with her and ask her to see a doctor she simply says "they can't do anything" and won't engage with me.
I really want her to see the doctor and see if anything can be done. It is really starting to get me down and I can't see a way to move forward.
Can I see her doctor in the UK without her knowledge? Can I see my own doctor to discuss this?
I really would appreciate any advice. Thanks for your time reading this.
My Mum is 68. She lives alone, though not far from us. My Dad died back in 97 and my Mum has been retired for over 10 years.
She has always been forgetful, ever since I can remember, and it has always been a joke. However, over the last few years, and the last 18 months in particular her memory loss has become a real worry.
She does not remember conversations and cannot remember things that have happened. For example in the last week she has had a problem with her car and her bank. When I ask her about what happened she can give me no details of the problems or how they occurred.
Her personality has also changed. Even though she is with us several times a week she does little to involve herself in conversation and seems to have little joy. She always used to laugh but that is a rare occurrence these days.
When I have attempted to discuss this with her and ask her to see a doctor she simply says "they can't do anything" and won't engage with me.
I really want her to see the doctor and see if anything can be done. It is really starting to get me down and I can't see a way to move forward.
Can I see her doctor in the UK without her knowledge? Can I see my own doctor to discuss this?
I really would appreciate any advice. Thanks for your time reading this.