Dear all
I am looking for help as to what to do for the best for my 83year old mother.
She is at the moment very sick has necrotic toes due to lack of blood flow linked partly to having type 2 diabetes she has had usual memory loss for someone of her age but this year I have seen other signs this is begins she got this problem end of November which is a long process of therapy in the HO ever the loss of these toes.
This year she was more weak less willing to change clothes wash often aggressive to me.
She is not always showing this so people assume she’s ok don’t have a good gp how can I get a diagnosis if it’s vascular dementia?
I adore her she is my best friend & I feel I am loosing her she can’t cope with this problem now forgets everything including where my father is he died 31 years ago at 53 so she is often crying and very sad missing him so much.
Sometimes I think she looks vacant & her hearing seems to have got bad.
She looks ok has always looked 20 years younger than her age which again makes doctors think she’s ok.
I am so unsure who can help me as maybe a drug could help her be normal again.
Any views would be very much appreciated as she has since sick this last month was 2 nights in hospital shown real delerium and been ranting once all night how can I sleep or be there fir her when she’s like this,
I feel at my wits end this is all new to me and I just want her back .
Sorry for rambling on
Thank you all
I am looking for help as to what to do for the best for my 83year old mother.
She is at the moment very sick has necrotic toes due to lack of blood flow linked partly to having type 2 diabetes she has had usual memory loss for someone of her age but this year I have seen other signs this is begins she got this problem end of November which is a long process of therapy in the HO ever the loss of these toes.
This year she was more weak less willing to change clothes wash often aggressive to me.
She is not always showing this so people assume she’s ok don’t have a good gp how can I get a diagnosis if it’s vascular dementia?
I adore her she is my best friend & I feel I am loosing her she can’t cope with this problem now forgets everything including where my father is he died 31 years ago at 53 so she is often crying and very sad missing him so much.
Sometimes I think she looks vacant & her hearing seems to have got bad.
She looks ok has always looked 20 years younger than her age which again makes doctors think she’s ok.
I am so unsure who can help me as maybe a drug could help her be normal again.
Any views would be very much appreciated as she has since sick this last month was 2 nights in hospital shown real delerium and been ranting once all night how can I sleep or be there fir her when she’s like this,
I feel at my wits end this is all new to me and I just want her back .
Sorry for rambling on
Thank you all