I am really scared my mum has alzheimers, mum and dad have been married for nearly 50 yrs, for the last two years my dad has suffered in silence, my mum has become very forgetful of which we have all noticed, she even forgets her grandsons names, she can remember things from years ago but can't remember from yesterday. My dad has finally admitted to myself and my husband of what he has been going through, she has become angry, and aggressive, she is frightened I think?, she is having hitting him and telling him alful things that she wants him to drop dead. I am devesated, she has had three brain hemorages and her personality has changed, she is having all the systoms of alzheimers, but we cannot approach it with her as she will not listen. My dad is distraught, please help us I can't bare to think this is happening, we have told him he is to go to the doctors, she won't have him go with her, and will not admit anything is wrong. Please does anyone have some advice for me to help my dad before something really bad happens. She has thrown boiling hot coffee over him now four time and cannot even remember, Help me please