Hello!
This is my first post. My Dad is 63 and recently received the results of a brain scan which indicate he likely has either Alzheimer’s or dementia or both.
It has taken me and my Mum 2 years to even get him to a brain scan as he refuses to accept there is anything wrong with him. Me and Mum are not at all surprised with the results and expected it. The only reason we eventually managed to get him to have the scan is because the GP mentioned a possible brain tumour.
Even though Dad has been told the results of the scan and that he now needs to see a specialist for more tests (I think before a full diagnosis is given), he is still in complete denial. He says he is completely healthy, still does everything the same and there is nothing wrong. It is not the case at all. He has not been himself for a very long time and has recently got worse quickly.
Me and my Mum are at such a loss at what to do, how to approach this and ensure he sees a specialist (who I hope will provide some medication to assist)? I know that denial is a massive part of the problem. My Dad has always been a stubborn man anyway and has become even more so!
Anyone got any advice on how to approach or deal with this? Anything at all would help as we really are at the end of our tether now. It has sadly become that me and my Mum mostly only ever talk about Dad and that is affecting our own relationship too! Such a sad situation, particularly both of my parents retired within the last couple of years and were ready to have a great retirement that they’d worked so hard for!
We do have Lasting Power of Attorney sorted already thankfully.
Thank you all.
This is my first post. My Dad is 63 and recently received the results of a brain scan which indicate he likely has either Alzheimer’s or dementia or both.
It has taken me and my Mum 2 years to even get him to a brain scan as he refuses to accept there is anything wrong with him. Me and Mum are not at all surprised with the results and expected it. The only reason we eventually managed to get him to have the scan is because the GP mentioned a possible brain tumour.
Even though Dad has been told the results of the scan and that he now needs to see a specialist for more tests (I think before a full diagnosis is given), he is still in complete denial. He says he is completely healthy, still does everything the same and there is nothing wrong. It is not the case at all. He has not been himself for a very long time and has recently got worse quickly.
Me and my Mum are at such a loss at what to do, how to approach this and ensure he sees a specialist (who I hope will provide some medication to assist)? I know that denial is a massive part of the problem. My Dad has always been a stubborn man anyway and has become even more so!
Anyone got any advice on how to approach or deal with this? Anything at all would help as we really are at the end of our tether now. It has sadly become that me and my Mum mostly only ever talk about Dad and that is affecting our own relationship too! Such a sad situation, particularly both of my parents retired within the last couple of years and were ready to have a great retirement that they’d worked so hard for!
We do have Lasting Power of Attorney sorted already thankfully.
Thank you all.