Hi, I can imagine why you want to scream, you are living day to day with the repetition, the questions and the blank eyes, together with lots more I'm sure - as many of us are.
I'm glad you have found the forum, I have been using it for 6 months.
My mum was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia at the end of March, but she lives 300 miles from me. My stepdad is her main carer, but I do speak to her every day and visit regularly.
I have just spent 3 weeks with my mum and all of your descriptions of your husbands behaviours are similar to my mum's, it is exhausting. I found it intense, sad and hard to remain patient. My stepdad is in denial and minimises my mum's behaviour.
But I can return to my home & family after a visit.
I hope you have family and friends that you can call on for support, as you need a break.
All you full time carers, including you Pamlia are amazing, be proud of yourselves.
Pamlia keep posting, you will find it helpful.