My name is Alan and I am my wifes carer. We are both 76. She has PCA which is a rare form of alzheimers and she is getting gradually worse. We live near Ross-On-Wye but I am having difficulty finding a care home that does respite care. I'm registering in the hope that when I am faced with difficult situations there is somewhere I can turn to for support. i.e. this morning for the first time she refused to take a shower. OK normally but she is also unfortunately incontinent. Not really a surprise when she sleeps for 15 hours, I would be too. As an example how shoul I deal with this. Should I not let her sleep for so long for example?
Alan
Alan