Hi everyone. I'm a carer (with my sister) For my mum who has alzhiemers and vascular dementia. There's a long history of mental health as well.
I'm just exhausted. We've tried care at home, 24 hour care, and most recently a care home. She took to calling the ambulance every day at home, so we organised 24 hour live in care, which she really struggled with and now tried 2 weeks in a care home which is making her more agitated than ever and she's constantly asking to "go home".
Looks like we will need to get her home again. Its all just so exhausting. I just don't think we can ever really get this right. She constantly asks to go home when she is home.
At a loss.
I'm just exhausted. We've tried care at home, 24 hour care, and most recently a care home. She took to calling the ambulance every day at home, so we organised 24 hour live in care, which she really struggled with and now tried 2 weeks in a care home which is making her more agitated than ever and she's constantly asking to "go home".
Looks like we will need to get her home again. Its all just so exhausting. I just don't think we can ever really get this right. She constantly asks to go home when she is home.
At a loss.