Hi. My name is Karen and my husband is Rob. My father has just been diagnosed with dementia, although we have been aware that his memory was deteriorating over the last 2-3 years but my parents were not ready to seek diagnosis. I believe my mum also has early stages, although she presents in a different way to him, muddling words and sentences as well as her memory becoming poorer. She has always been an avid scrabble player but now finds it difficult to find any words from her letters. She will definitely not accept that she has any issues.
She has no patience with my dad and can be quite unpleasant at times. Although she knows he has dementia, she makes no allowances for him and still expects him to do everything he previously did for her. If he can’t she calls him stupid, or worse. I worry about dad, but as we both work, can’t keep an eye on them all the time and they are still managing at home ok So definitely don’t need care currently. I just help with finances or anything they ask for. Anyone else had a similar situation?
She has no patience with my dad and can be quite unpleasant at times. Although she knows he has dementia, she makes no allowances for him and still expects him to do everything he previously did for her. If he can’t she calls him stupid, or worse. I worry about dad, but as we both work, can’t keep an eye on them all the time and they are still managing at home ok So definitely don’t need care currently. I just help with finances or anything they ask for. Anyone else had a similar situation?