Hi everyone. My partner has "cognitive issues" that have become increasingly severe in the last couple of years. He's been referred to a local memory clinic and, following a nurse assessment, the consultant has told me that he thinks OH has Alzheimer's and vascular dementia. Despite being referred back in May, partner hasn't yet had a face to face meeting with a specialist because the doctors insist on an OT assessment first, and there is a very long waiting list for that. I find it frustrating that we can't get a diagnosis which would mean that he could then start on whatever medication is appropriate.
Meanwhile, Partner just says that "he's always had a bad memory" and brushes aside anything that suggests he is confused (like not knowing that 4.30 am is morning, not afternoon) as "an easy mistake to make."
He's still pleasant and kind to me, though he's lost any interest in how my life is going, including the fact that I'm not well and am waiting for an urgent hospital appointment. We don't really chat any more the way we used to - I make conversation and he may or may not join in. He's less kind to, and often very critical of one of his sons who does a lot to help him. I miss the person he used to be, but I imagine thatmany people here are used to that feeling! Meanwhile, I'm grateful to have found a forum where people can share experiences and advice.
Meanwhile, Partner just says that "he's always had a bad memory" and brushes aside anything that suggests he is confused (like not knowing that 4.30 am is morning, not afternoon) as "an easy mistake to make."
He's still pleasant and kind to me, though he's lost any interest in how my life is going, including the fact that I'm not well and am waiting for an urgent hospital appointment. We don't really chat any more the way we used to - I make conversation and he may or may not join in. He's less kind to, and often very critical of one of his sons who does a lot to help him. I miss the person he used to be, but I imagine thatmany people here are used to that feeling! Meanwhile, I'm grateful to have found a forum where people can share experiences and advice.