hello i have only joined your forums today and i would like to thank all the members on here for providing such a good site where people listen and give advice from personal accounts . its great that in times of need theres someone who understands who can help .
ive joined as i dont know what to do for the best my mom has cared for my nan now for the last 12 years but has been living with her for the last 9 years aswell as my mom being really ill with a tumour she has stood strong and cared for my nan now 85 my mom has now been having respite for the last couple of years about 4-6 weeks in a year . my nan now is in the final stgages i think of alzheimers she is unable to anything at all and doesnt recognise anyone apart from my mom. my dad has been a great support to my mom to take on looking after nan but i still cant help but think whats it doing to my mom inside .
this morning i got a phone call from mom to say that they had both been up with nan al night nan is so disturbed talking to family members who passed years ago her mom and dad and trying to get out of the house there now awaiting the doctors to come in but i dont know what to say to my mom when i try and help i just get told i will do it my way what can i do ?
im really sorry if i have drowned on but dont know what to do
ive joined as i dont know what to do for the best my mom has cared for my nan now for the last 12 years but has been living with her for the last 9 years aswell as my mom being really ill with a tumour she has stood strong and cared for my nan now 85 my mom has now been having respite for the last couple of years about 4-6 weeks in a year . my nan now is in the final stgages i think of alzheimers she is unable to anything at all and doesnt recognise anyone apart from my mom. my dad has been a great support to my mom to take on looking after nan but i still cant help but think whats it doing to my mom inside .
this morning i got a phone call from mom to say that they had both been up with nan al night nan is so disturbed talking to family members who passed years ago her mom and dad and trying to get out of the house there now awaiting the doctors to come in but i dont know what to say to my mom when i try and help i just get told i will do it my way what can i do ?
im really sorry if i have drowned on but dont know what to do