My eldest sister has picks dementia and doesn't speak at all. She doesn't recognise anyone it's heartbreaking I miss having my sister to talk,laugh and love with. She's currently in a care home in Kent. I'm in Scotland and I can't even talk with her on the phone.
I'm absolutely heartbroken.
My mum also had early onset dementia and lives with my very nasty and controlling sister who gives mum a hard time. She won't let me speak to her on the phone and is denying myself and my brother all contact despite mum wanting to see/ chat with us.
I've rang social services and they told me to call police.
I call police and they tell me to call social services.
Mum is not happy where she is, and feels like she's treading on eggshells.
Recently her POA was changed from my brother to the nasty sister, but mum is adamant she's not changed it knowingly and still thinks my brother is still her POA. We have complained to office of the public guardian and they are investigating it.
My evil sister is all about control and recognition. She does care a little for my mum but doesn't care about her.
She gives mum no freedom of speech,no privacy and no choices of clothes to wear or food to eat.
I couldn't even get to wish my own mum merry Christmas or happy new year. It's totally outrageous what she's doing but I don't know where to get help?
Mum says her life is miserable and not worth living. She's 88 and in poor health. Has anyone else had or know of anyone with a similar problem?
I'd be so grateful for any help XXX
I'm absolutely heartbroken.
My mum also had early onset dementia and lives with my very nasty and controlling sister who gives mum a hard time. She won't let me speak to her on the phone and is denying myself and my brother all contact despite mum wanting to see/ chat with us.
I've rang social services and they told me to call police.
I call police and they tell me to call social services.
Mum is not happy where she is, and feels like she's treading on eggshells.
Recently her POA was changed from my brother to the nasty sister, but mum is adamant she's not changed it knowingly and still thinks my brother is still her POA. We have complained to office of the public guardian and they are investigating it.
My evil sister is all about control and recognition. She does care a little for my mum but doesn't care about her.
She gives mum no freedom of speech,no privacy and no choices of clothes to wear or food to eat.
I couldn't even get to wish my own mum merry Christmas or happy new year. It's totally outrageous what she's doing but I don't know where to get help?
Mum says her life is miserable and not worth living. She's 88 and in poor health. Has anyone else had or know of anyone with a similar problem?
I'd be so grateful for any help XXX