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@Poppysnan I have every sympathy with you, as mine went into a secure unit 2 days ago, for assessment and then probably on to a care home. This is my first time on my own since I was 20, I’m now 62. When I first read this type of post 4 yrs ago, I would think, get a grip, it’s for the best. Oh how karma has come back to bite me. I feel enormous guilt, as he is still physically able, it’s just that he is aggressive and a wanderer now, and I was exhausted. I take heart from what
@Grannie G says, and others have said, that the relationship can get better, as you are no longer a carer, but can revert back to being a wife or partner. Look after yourself.