Hello to you all, I have come back. My 88yr old mother has Dementia that has totally torn me apart as I thought I could handle it so stopped using this forum, since the virus struck and other family issues my mental health took a bad turn that I just pushed down. My mother who has three carers everyday had started to have some falls in her flat and was taken to hospital then last week I could not get in mum's flat as I heard her calling out for me which ripped my heart out I along with paramedics and a stranger managed to get into her flat and she is back in hospital. Along with other people who is going through this I really do struggle as I look at mum and think WHY. I have just started to get the help I need as I know I need it and thought I'd sign back in. So hello from me David who feels totally lost.