Hi, My mum lives in Devon and I saw her over xmas and she no longer has any idea who I am. This is making the 400 mile round trip to see her even harder and I am getting to the point where I am beginning to wonder if its worth while! I mean what is the point of making a 4 hour drive to see her for a just couple of hours, without her even knowing who I am as it makes no difference to her day! I then have to make another 4 hour drive to go home! If I am really honest I only go now just to ease my own conscience....... Is it only me that feels this way ????