That's a great suggestion by @DeMartin thst I forgot to mention.
Sorting instead of clearing could be a compromise! Also, cleaning could be an outlet for your sister. She can come and deep clean my house if she needs some distraction!
I forgot to say that, YES, you should keep more clothes and shoes and so on, than you think you need, even if there is eventually a permanent placement in care.
It was trial and error, and still is over three years after going into the care home, about what my mother would need. A lot of clothing wasn't suitable (dressy clothes from 40 years ago) but all the practical bits you should hold onto. For example, my mother will only wear one type of shoe and had bought multiple pairs. I have the extras st my house in case she loses one or they need to be replaced. You can't have enough nightgowns, in my experience. And so on.
My mother has also gained and lost and gained weight with various ailments and so having access to things that fit, has been helpful.
If your sister could sort everything out it could actually be quite helpful. And then send her my direction!
Sorting instead of clearing could be a compromise! Also, cleaning could be an outlet for your sister. She can come and deep clean my house if she needs some distraction!
I forgot to say that, YES, you should keep more clothes and shoes and so on, than you think you need, even if there is eventually a permanent placement in care.
It was trial and error, and still is over three years after going into the care home, about what my mother would need. A lot of clothing wasn't suitable (dressy clothes from 40 years ago) but all the practical bits you should hold onto. For example, my mother will only wear one type of shoe and had bought multiple pairs. I have the extras st my house in case she loses one or they need to be replaced. You can't have enough nightgowns, in my experience. And so on.
My mother has also gained and lost and gained weight with various ailments and so having access to things that fit, has been helpful.
If your sister could sort everything out it could actually be quite helpful. And then send her my direction!