My wife's brother (who I'll call George) was diagnosed with Alzheimer's in 2022 and has been slowly deteriorating. Our two families are very close and we usually stay with each other for a few days every couple of months as we live several hours from each other. When we went to their house in February everything seemed fine. We chatted and even had a couple of evening sessions playing cards. However, on the morning we were due to leave George wouldn't come out of the living room to say goodbye. His wife later said that he didn't want to see me because I had forced him to go outside naked - clearly an hallucination.
They were scheduled to visit us today and his wife had been casually reminding him for the past week or so. Yesterday she phoned to say that he refused to come because he didn't want to see me. If he had to go he wouldn't speak to anyone. Needless to say we cancelled the visit. We've decided that my wife (George's sister) will go and visit them as he doesn't appear to have a problem with her. They won't discuss the situation with him as we expect that would only further cement the 'event' in his mind.
I know I'm not the first to experience this. Are there any suggestions on how to get this 'event' to disappear, so to speak?
Many thanks
Gordon
They were scheduled to visit us today and his wife had been casually reminding him for the past week or so. Yesterday she phoned to say that he refused to come because he didn't want to see me. If he had to go he wouldn't speak to anyone. Needless to say we cancelled the visit. We've decided that my wife (George's sister) will go and visit them as he doesn't appear to have a problem with her. They won't discuss the situation with him as we expect that would only further cement the 'event' in his mind.
I know I'm not the first to experience this. Are there any suggestions on how to get this 'event' to disappear, so to speak?
Many thanks
Gordon