I shall let you all in to a secret, my mother was never in to Mother Day , so to me also I could never get the point of mother day , when my daughters wanted to make a fuss of me for just one day , then leave me to it for the rest of the year. Then I find out its all a religious thing anyway, just like Christmas, that I also join in , oh and birthdays that’s another thing my mother was never in to , I never got a card from her over the age of 10 , I had to remind her so yes I also feel its meaningless and I admire the courage of Grannie G to say to say so , as mush as I admire the courage of tender face to openly disagree with it .
I only really join into mother day , because my daughter son use to like doing it for me when younger , now not all of my children where into it also , my son had argument with my daughter I took my daughter side , and then he found out that I pay for something for her room and the man he got and he pay to lay the flooring lay her flooring in her room he got the hump , so my son not got me anything for mother day dose that mean he love me less , oh no his also always forget my birthday also lol the way I brought him up the way my mother brought me up . I know he love me and that’s all I care .
so my legacy to my children to be emotional strong , cry if you want to , but they is always someone worse of then you . Oh how they hate me saying that to them ,
will I would rather them thinking like that , then having so much anger and pain in the future , then them getting so down that suicide inter they mind , that they do not know how to mange they emotion in a balance way just because I kick the bucket , but then I to can get un balance with my emotion when I am under a lot of stress copying with family and life my own emotion is bam hard to control , I just hope my children understand that its all part of being a human to feel sad now and then , but get up get on with it
I also respect other people in how they express they pain and I love to read that someone else feels like I do ( meaningless mother day and about always someone worse of ) what help me may not help another. I could go on all day about this, thank god today is another day from yesterday and its all in the past. But I thought I would add my view like every one alse does .
I was luck I enjoyed yesterday my daughter took me for a meal to a restaurant that the atmosphere , was like I was right back in Gibraltar ,I thought what a lovely memories for her in the future , how I must do this more often with my children not just on mother day , how I wish my mother could of done that for me , but then she was from another hard working generation that had no time for children , but I new she love me and that’s all that really matter at the end of the day .