Hello, I find that each time I visit my Mum, approx fortnightly, she asks me to explain what's wrong with her, and to prove to her with 'evidence' what's she's done to end up with this diagnosis, and wants to know where is the proper detailed diagnosis from a doctor, She doesn't really recognise the Memory Service, cant remember those interactions. She says the carers don't come, it's only me that knows about them, how come they all know me, and that all of her friends think she's perfectly fine. Actually she does have lots of good days, is at her best when socialising, and physically is well. She's been a scientist all her working life, curious, challenging, that's how her mind works. I want to respect her, her boundaries and questions, and try to explain as best as I can, but end up thinking that I'm always redelivering awful news. I worry that in her mind it's all becoming my fault. Someone reminded me today to never say No to a person with dementia, to always find a way to redirect and use humour. Does anyone have ideas on other ways to handle her questions...... Thankyou