We made it through Christmas. But mum now on nil by mouth and on a morphine pump. We have kept a constant 24 hour vigil but it is so harrowing to watch her go through this. I hate to see her suffering so and being able to do nothing about it. Feels like we have given up on her. Honestly not sure how to keep going. Feels like we are just waiting for her to die, which is true, we are. Not sure how many more hours we can hold out but terrified of leaving her alone.
You are into the last long vigil.
This twilight world is indeed harrowing. You want it all to stop, and yet you dont..
She will still be able to hear, even if she cannot respond, so say the important things to her - I love you, thank you, Im sorry. Reassure her that it is OK to go.
Read to her, play her favourite music, tell her the family stories.
Put moisturiser on her dry skin and salve on her lips to make her more comfortable.
Dont forget to eat and sleep
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