So my mum is 89, living with advanced dementia in a good nursing home. She is very frail and losing weight due to significant lack of appetite. We visit regularly and try and tempt her with old favourites which are hit and miss mostly. She can still swallow but is now holding food in her mouth and occasionally says she cannot swallow. We’ve agreed no SALT interventions as they will just prolong her agony! Due to her diabetes she doesn’t like any of the drinks they normally suggest.
Some of her non essential meds were removed, like her diabetes meds, because she was in danger of having a hypo due to lack of food intake. She’s more unsettled and requires morphine to settle and for pain. She’s lost ability to stand and walk but can still sit in a chair for a while without falling to the side. Until today she was mostly continent but woke with wet bedding.
A couple of weeks ago the GP issued end of life meds although as yet not been required or used!
It’s pitiful seeing her looking so thin and gaunt, I wonder how much more her body and mind has to take before this sorry disease takes what is left of her.
Not really any question, just wanted to express my sadness for her continuing ‘existence’ with what I see now as only fleeting moments of quality of life!
Some of her non essential meds were removed, like her diabetes meds, because she was in danger of having a hypo due to lack of food intake. She’s more unsettled and requires morphine to settle and for pain. She’s lost ability to stand and walk but can still sit in a chair for a while without falling to the side. Until today she was mostly continent but woke with wet bedding.
A couple of weeks ago the GP issued end of life meds although as yet not been required or used!
It’s pitiful seeing her looking so thin and gaunt, I wonder how much more her body and mind has to take before this sorry disease takes what is left of her.
Not really any question, just wanted to express my sadness for her continuing ‘existence’ with what I see now as only fleeting moments of quality of life!