Good day all. My wife of 39 years who has dementia has started to leave going to the toilet a little late. Sometimes it is to late and she has accidents? I do remind her and encourage her to go the toilet, but it does not always work and to be truthful the encouragement can feel more like nagging. What makes it more difficult even with the dementia my wife still knows all the buttons to press to make me feel guilty, even when I am innocent So if you have any suggestions on how I can motivate her to do as I ask, I would really appreciate the advice. Thanks for anything. Andova.