My father has been to memory clinic for the 4th time he has seen the consultant as the registrar he had been seeing has left. I wrote everything down dad had done each time he went to the clinic so the had a full picture of what he was doing & saying. The registrar had said if he could take medication we would get a prescription through the post back in January. As this never came I wasn't too bothered asi didn't want him being worse with the side effects. I'm up every night 2 or 3 times some nights I'm up with him 3 hours at a time. Today the consultant has said he can take Memantine -Ebixa. Has anyone had any one on this & if so have they been better/ worse. Dads got heart failure kidney disease. I feel we've taken 3 steps back. He won't even send anyone to talk to him about the vascular dementia & Alzheimers