thanks lyntx my husband does not remember the doctor coming to see him nevermind him saying he should not drive, do not understand there scale but said he has gone down from 18 to 8 on his memory test and very rarely remembers my name so difficult to reason with, but should not drive again, driving was his last bit of independence left to him but it is for his own safety and safety of others he doesnot drive again I will just have to persevere and keep reminding him and keep keys away from him , thank you everyone for all your help
I think you're being wise. My fear was that John would look right, then look left and see a car, then look right again, and forget he'd seen a car on his left. As I said before, we nearly got divorced, because John took all his frustrations out on me - but that's what we're for, I suppose.