My Mom was diagnosed 4 years ago with Alzheimer’s. She’s on medication. Her husband died 2 weeks ago and because we were living in a different part of the country we didn’t realise how bad she is. Her husband had been doing everything for her and now he is gone she is totally helpless. She thinks she is going to get better. I’m spending hours a day there and the minute I get home she messages me to say ‘somebody has stolen their money’ or ‘she’s lost her keys’. She has a pill box but forgets to take the tablets. She can’t remember if she eaten. You ask her anything and she can’t remember. She is constantly frightened and scared then rallies herself when people are there, but the minute they leave she is fretting and messaging me. I’ve suggested help and she has told me to get on with my life leave her to it. But it’s worrying me sick. I can’t keep going everyday unfortunately. I don’t know what to do. There are no other family members to help.